Stalker Potential

[Khali♥]

Have you ever dated somebody who had stalker potential? Did he/she exhibit signs that they could possibly become dangerous? For example, taking jealousy to the next level?

[Star♫]

I didn't date them, even though they asked (well technically their friend asked for them.... it was middle school, what do you expect?). They were getting to a stalkerish point. He was really starting to get on my nerves. Then after all of that he started to like my friend (still does if you ask me) but she didn't like him either. Now he won't admit he liked me. She likes to ask him about it, apparently he does his best to avoid the subject lol.

[emily]

Well I didn't date him but there once was a guy who really liked me. He would email me 20 emails a day and call eight times a day. I tried to be a polite as possible but in the end I was quite stern with him. Sometimes I think I was too stern with him but I know I made the right decision. It happened four years ago.

[StickieBun]

Well, one time when i was in the end of 8th grade i met this boy at a teen hang out called The Rock. He looked lonely sitting alone in a hallway so i decided to say hi, my friends hadnt arrived yet, so i did and we got to talking and he seemed a nice guy, so i hung out with him for about two days... after that it became scarry.... He followed me into the girls bathroom, and was doing stuff like that so i reported him and he got baned from the Rock and he waited outside in the dark... and then followed me home! the rock is only 3 blocks down the road from my house so it wasnt far and i didnt knotice him following. that is until i saw his face in my bedroom window. creepyest thing is he was a junor in High school at the time. and then he also started stalking my little sister and my BFF at the time.... yeah.... and then at the fair i saw him following me again and i reported him to the cops.... havnt seen him sense.

[amana]

i started working as an volunteer in Oxfam last november and a week after a guy started who i got on well with at first and then he started making rude sexual comments (which he got fired from his last job for) ,following me about, if i was talking to any1 he would watch me or come over to listen to what was being said and ask who i was talking 2! he'd send me txt msgs.
we live in the same estate so he would wait for me after work and get the same bus as me and get off at the same stop even tho he lives on the other side of the estate or if i went shopping he would follow me round the town. one morning i found him standing at my bus stop waiting 4 me.
he really creeped me out i tried telling my parents about him but they took no notice!

[StickieBun]

parents are always overbearing over the small stupid things.. then terribly uninterested on the big things...

[emily]

Wow, so many of us had stalkerish guys bothering us.

[Khali♥]

I'm surprised Star hasn't said anything, but I have a stalker. A "lax" stalker is what she called him.


At first it was sweet. He would walk me to my car and such. And then when he started wanting to hang out all the time I kept blowing him off, hoping he would get the hint. He didn't So...on Monday, Star and I decided to ditch Latin and I saw her with one of our HS friends down in the smokers area (they don't smoke, just fyi), so instead of taking my usual route to my truck, with said stalker in tow, I decided to take the stairs to see what they were talking about.

So, it ended up that we spent about 45 minutes reliving our high school days, talking about things that said stalker had never been included in. He got bored pretty quick. I noticed him checking his watch every couple minutes and the look on his face read clearly "kill me now", so I wasn't sure why he didn't take off.

He stayed diligently by my side the whole time. I was a little annoyed.

Whatever, life goes on, right?

So tonight, I wasn't sure if Star was planning on skipping Latin again or not, so I went to look for her in the library. The stalker followed me. And when she wasn't at our usual table, I told him that I needed to use the restroom and then I'd finish looking for Star, praying to God that he'd get it this time. Nope. He followed me...TO THE BATHROOM!!!

He used the "I have to go, too" excuse. Right.
So anyway, apparently 4 minutes is too long to pee and wash my hands. He was looking for me when I got out. And then we ran into G & T, our high school friends, and then another buddy of mine, Graham, showed up, so we got to talking again. Stalker, who I will refer to as Jack (as in, Jack Jordan), was attached to my hip yet again.

Anyway, Star and I had to bolt pretty quickly, as to not get caught by someone in our class lol So we told our friends goodbye and left. Jack followed. So anyway, he walked me to my car, as per our usual agreement (when this agreement took place, I have yet to figure out) and said "So, will you actually call me this weekend?"
"You can call me too you know," I said abruptly.
"Well last time I called, you yelled at me and made me cry," he said. I never did that. Yes, he's one of THOSE types...
"You can call me."
"Okay, I'll do that then."


I'm starting to get really pissed. He doesn't seem to get the subtle hints I keep dropping. The words "subtle hint" the size of a blimp, could literally fall out of the sky and land on his head and he WOULD NOT GET IT.



Oh, and I suppose I should mention that Jack has liked me since we were in 7th grade. So, yeah, that's going on 7 years now lol. Not so endearing once you think about it.

Get a hobby, man.

[Star♫]

lol That's why I didn't say anything... I thought it would be a better story if you wrote it lol. Oh, and plus i was walking up the stairs behind you yesterday, and he was trying to push between me and the stair rail to get in between me and you, so i just stopped and let him past. It was very annoying.

[Khali♥]

Not to sound mean, but it would have been funny if he fell.

[emily]

Oct 1, 2008 21:45:39 GMT -5 Khali♥ said:

I'm surprised Star hasn't said anything, but I have a stalker. A "lax" stalker is what she called him.


At first it was sweet. He would walk me to my car and such. And then when he started wanting to hang out all the time I kept blowing him off, hoping he would get the hint. He didn't So...on Monday, Star and I decided to ditch Latin and I saw her with one of our HS friends down in the smokers area (they don't smoke, just fyi), so instead of taking my usual route to my truck, with said stalker in tow, I decided to take the stairs to see what they were talking about.

So, it ended up that we spent about 45 minutes reliving our high school days, talking about things that said stalker had never been included in. He got bored pretty quick. I noticed him checking his watch every couple minutes and the look on his face read clearly "kill me now", so I wasn't sure why he didn't take off.

He stayed diligently by my side the whole time. I was a little annoyed.

Whatever, life goes on, right?

So tonight, I wasn't sure if Star was planning on skipping Latin again or not, so I went to look for her in the library. The stalker followed me. And when she wasn't at our usual table, I told him that I needed to use the restroom and then I'd finish looking for Star, praying to God that he'd get it this time. Nope. He followed me...TO THE BATHROOM!!!

He used the "I have to go, too" excuse. Right.
So anyway, apparently 4 minutes is too long to pee and wash my hands. He was looking for me when I got out. And then we ran into G & T, our high school friends, and then another buddy of mine, Graham, showed up, so we got to talking again. Stalker, who I will refer to as Jack (as in, Jack Jordan), was attached to my hip yet again.

Anyway, Star and I had to bolt pretty quickly, as to not get caught by someone in our class lol So we told our friends goodbye and left. Jack followed. So anyway, he walked me to my car, as per our usual agreement (when this agreement took place, I have yet to figure out) and said "So, will you actually call me this weekend?"
"You can call me too you know," I said abruptly.
"Well last time I called, you yelled at me and made me cry," he said. I never did that. Yes, he's one of THOSE types...
"You can call me."
"Okay, I'll do that then."


I'm starting to get really pissed. He doesn't seem to get the subtle hints I keep dropping. The words "subtle hint" the size of a blimp, could literally fall out of the sky and land on his head and he WOULD NOT GET IT.



Oh, and I suppose I should mention that Jack has liked me since we were in 7th grade. So, yeah, that's going on 7 years now lol. Not so endearing once you think about it.

Get a hobby, man.

Do you think he'll come back for revenge if you do manage to get rid of him?

[Khali♥]

It's a definite possibility. He's a little freaky.

[StickieBun]

creepy

[Star♫]

Yeah.... 7 years is a bit much, especially if you won't even let their best friend walk between the two of you lol.